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Embracing Values-Led Parenting: Nurturing Children with Purpose and Meaning

Updated: Sep 27, 2023

Parenting can be a challenging journey to navigate. You'll be pulled to instill values in your children that feel important to you, but figuring out what these values are may be a challenge, or come as a surprise to you. As society evolves, so do ideals and aspirations. This is where values-led parenting comes into play. Instead of merely focusing on achievements and success, this approach to parenting places emphasis on fostering a strong foundation of core values that guide our child's actions and decisions. In this blog post, we'll explore the concept of values-led parenting and discover its significance in raising compassionate, responsible, and purposeful individuals.


What is values led parenting?


Values-led parenting holds the idea that a child's development is shaped by their families core values. It can be helpful to think of values like a compass, guiding the direction of growth and development, rather than goals we strive to meet. Having a set of clear values can support parents and children to navigate challenges. There are so many values which may be important for your family, and there may be others that just aren't central for you. Values include things like honesty, compassion, kindness and integrity. Values-led parenting can work for every family, no matter what other parenting approaches they use.


Where do I start?


A good place to start is by sitting down and thinking about your core values, as a parent and as a wider family. It can be helpful to have a list of values to work through if you're not sure. Think about which are most important to you; having a list of 4-6 is usually a good idea, any more can be a bit overwhelming. These values might change over time, so you can revisit your list in the future and consider whether they're still right for you and your family.


As the primary role model for your children, you play an important role in shaping your child's world view. The values enacted by parents help children develop their own value systems. It is therefore paramount for you to embody the values you wish to instill in your children. By consistently demonstrating these values in our own lives, children will develop their own values.


What are some of the benefits of this approach?


Developing emotional intelligence

Emotional intelligence is the ability to understand, manage, and express emotions effectively. Values-led parenting supports the development of emotional intelligence in children. By nurturing emotional intelligence, we equip our children with the tools to empathize with others, resolve conflicts, and make thoughtful decisions. It also supports children to develop the skills to recognise and respond to their own emotions, when their brain has developed enough for them to do this. Engaging in open and supportive communication, actively listening to their concerns, and validating their emotions are key aspects of this approach.



Encouraging critical thinking

Values-led parenting promotes critical thinking in children. Instead of imposing values upon them, we encourage our children to think critically about moral and ethical dilemmas, allowing them to develop their own perspectives within the boundaries of the core values we hold. This approach fosters independent thinking, self-reflection, and a sense of responsibility for their choices, empowering them to become thoughtful and principled individuals.


Supporting you at challenging times

Values-led parenting acknowledges that life is filled with challenges and setbacks. By cultivating resilience, we equip our children with the skills to face adversity, learn from failure, and persevere in the pursuit of their goals. Teaching problem-solving skills, and providing emotional support during difficult times are essential aspects of values-led parenting. It helps children develop skills to overcome obstacles while staying true to their values.



Moving forwards


Values-led parenting offers a meaningful approach to raising children in an ever-changing world. As parents, we have the opportunity to shape the future by instilling values in the next generation that are important in the current climate. Is values led parenting something that could work for you and your family?

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